
— 04.26.2025 Elopement & 2026 Wedding —
Alexandra Joy & Benjamin
We’re Getting Married!
A Match Made In Heaven
Alexandra Joy and Benjamin joyfully request the pleasure of your company as we speak our vows and join in marriage in the presence of family & family friends.
It’s been a joy and we simply cannot wait any longer to get married!
We are eloping on the beach in Florida with Florida neighbors, then will have an intimate wedding celebration in New York with family once construction is complete at the NYAC. This all works out as we are like the idea of having intimate events in both Florida and the northeast to limit the amount travel our loved ones have to do in order to celebrate with us and instead we are bringing the celebration to you all.
The Florida Beach Elopement
Saturday, April 26, 2025
Ceremony: 5pm—5:30pm
Poolside Party: 5:30pm—8:30pm
For Immediate Family & Florida Neighbors
The New York City Intimate Wedding
Date To Be Determined
The New York Athletic Club
180 Central Park South
New York, New York 10019
For Northeast Family & Family Friends
Intimate Family Wedding Accommodations
The New York Athletic Club
We will be reserving a block of rooms at The New York Athletic on Central Park South. Just mention the Seits-Cattau wedding when you reserve.
180 Central Park South
New York, New York 10019
(212) 767-7000
The Bride
A snippet about the bride.
Alexandra grew up in Bryn Mawr, PA, spending her summers in Avalon, NJ where she worked at her parents’ Shore Sports Camps, taught yoga at the camps, on the beach for Avalon Surf Camp, at a wellness studio, and in her backyard on the bay. Alexandra graduated from Bryn Mawr College and then went to graduate school at the University of Pennsylvania for over half a decade. Alexandra was the psychotherapist advisor and consultant for two Netflix series. Today, Alexandra is a practicing psychotherapist, and founder of Alljoys LLC, DBA Inlet Behavioral Wellness, a private practice owner, and production consulting, executive coaching, and somatics business founder based out of The Treasure Coast of Florida.
The Groom
A snippet about the groom.
Benjamin was born on the Upper West Side of Manhattan and grew up in Larchmont, New York. Ben played violin, soccer, fenced in high school and in college, sailed on the Sound, worked at a rock-climbing gym and French bakery, and started a longboard club in undergrad. Ben studied biology and philosophy at Haverford College and then did his post-bac program at University of Pennsylvania. He was lab manager and a research specialist in two Genetics laboratories at Penn: the Vahedi Lab (Immunology & Genetics) and the Faryabi Lab (Cancer Genetics). Today, Ben is the founder and owner of a small business, Booc Co. LLC, DBA Best Choice Test Prep, serving families of The Treasure Coast of Florida and beyond with the college process ranging from coaching, college consulting, tutoring services, college admissions essays.
The Registry
For our Florida elopement, many of your are making time to celebrate with us beachside, so your presence means the world to us and is all we ask for.
For our New York intimate wedding, many of you are making the time to celebrate with us in New York City, so your presence means the world to us and is all we ask for.
If you'd still like to contribute to our registry or honeymoon funds, select from the options below.